I understand it is tradition to post 100 things for you 100th post. I maybe wrong but you get to read them anyway.
I am posting 100 things about our start. Since this blog was started after we had been home a while. That is, of course, if I can think of 100 things to post. Here it goes.
1. In college I planned to adopted by 30
2. After college I started my career
3. My siblings had kids
4. And I decided that would be way to much work
5. Around 6 years ago I started to think about adopting again
6. I felt God was leading me in that direction
7. I was a bit reluctant
8. I waited
9. Until I got a less pressure job
10. And a house
11. And ran out of reasons to delay
12. I know now that it was just God’s timing
13. I picked an agency because my sister had heard of them
14. I was clueless
15. But when I talked to the director of the Ethiopia program I knew I made the right choice
16. If I knew then what I know now I may have chosen differently
17. But again it was just part of God’s plan
18. I chose Ethiopia after talking to my youngest sister
19. She was adopted from foster care and is part African American
20. She has challenges
21. I thought she would tell me how terrible it was to be in a white family
22. She did not
23. So now Dori resembles her aunt in some ways
24. Which is good because the rest of the family is so fair there’s a glare
25. I sent in my initial application in October of 2005
26. I finished my dossier in June the following year
27. I dragged my feet getting it done
28. I was still a bit scared to become a parent
29. I also kept waiting for someone to say I was unfit
30. This was not based on any rational thought
31. The hardest part was the physical
32. Not the actual exam but getting my notarized results
33. I told very few people about the adoption
34. See #29 for the reason
35. Just my closest friends and family
36. So I would not chicken out
37. I received my referral in October of 2006
38. I thought Dori looked like a doll
39. I was at work
40. I should have gone home
41. It was not a productive day
42. Dori was naked in her referral pictures
43. She also peed in one
44. I guess she was demonstrating the plumbing works
45. Even after referral I was not quiet convinced I would be a mother
46. I was sure something would go wrong
47. Even now I fear someone will take Dori from me
48. It is a fear rooted in my past
49. But that is a different story
50. I even called Dori “the baby”
51. I did not want to get too attached
52. Which worked until I saw her skinny pictures
53. They really scared me
54. I just wanted to go to Ethiopia and take care of her
55. I did not pass court the first time
56. I expected that (See #46)
57. I was pleasantly surprised to pass the second time
58. I often expect the worst
59. I passed court the day before my baby shower
60. I loved my baby shower
61. I had done very little preparation for a baby prior to the shower
62. My best friend helped me put up the crib that weekend
63. Dori’s crib is pink
64. I think that is also when I painted the bookshelf that held her clothes in baskets.
65. My shower was the first weekend in December
66. I was going to have plenty of time to get ready to go to Ethiopia
67. Then my office figured out I was leaving for six weeks.
68. And needed everything right before I left
69. My last weekend before becoming a full time mom I worked
70. It was probably good to have a distraction
71. I was really a wreck
72. And left out some important paperwork when packing
73. Like my travel insurance and agency Ethiopian contact info.
74. It is a good thing I did not need either of those things
75. My sister in law traveled with me
76. I feel sorry for her
77. I was feeling dazed, crazy and scared
78. And all she did is carry stuff
79. And most important take pictures
80. By the way DO NOT take an unfamiliar camera to Ethiopia planning to read the manual on the way there.
81. You may be too dazed, crazy and scared to do anything other than watch movies and obsess about your paperwork
82. The same holds true for thank you notes
83. And don’t assume that in six weeks off with a baby you will have plenty of time to get those thank you notes done (Sorry guys, I loved the gifts)
84. I slept very little in the three days before meeting Dori
85. Which turned out to be good practice
86. The first time I saw Dori in real life she was screaming her head off
87. Because her diaper was being changed
88. And she did not like it
89. She has not changed very much (The screaming, not the diaper)
90. After her diaper was done she was smiley, happy, talky, baby
91. She has not changed that much (The smiley, happy, talky, not the baby)
92. Even after getting Dori and passing through the Embassy appointment I was nervous
93. I wanted to be home
94. And my sister in law missed her kids
95. So we went shopping and bought way too little ( I was a zombie woman, that is a first for me)
96. And then we took an early flight home
97. I was so happy to pass customs in Washington DC
98. I finally felt she was all mine
99. And I was able to get a real Diet Coke
100. And that was the start of our adventure
Wow! I actually could have written more. Aren’t both of you glad I didn’t.
I loved it.
How did you know you where on your 100 post?
Ahhhh Happy Birthday Dori! She will ALWAYS be your baby :-))))) oh, and can I have one of those yummy cupcakes?? lol
I love this post! I could have read more 😀